10 Ways to Wake Up Your Mornings

10 Ways to Wake Up Your Mornings

1. Get Up.

How often do you find yourself completely uninterested in getting up once your alarm goes off? There’s a reason why this happens so often. It’s not so much that you’re so tired (although if you’ve gotten less than 7 hours of sleep that may be the case), but that you have been lying flat for hours, and your blood pressure is very low. So if you compel yourself to get up, your blood pressure will rise and you will feel awake soon after. (Even if you haven’t gotten enough sleep! Trust me on this: as a midwife I routinely wake from very little sleep to see patients, and I’m always amazed at how alert I feel once I just get up.)

2. Choose an Early Morning Affirmation.

Even after you get up, it’s easy to think, “Ugh, I’m so tired. ” At least it is for me. So when that happens, I try to catch myself and say instead, “It’s going to be a great day.” The morning improves instantly. I highly recommend you do the same. Your affirmation doesn’t have to be anything profound. It just has to be something that gives you a little boost and sets a positive intention for the hours ahead.

3. Brush Your Body Too.

Along with brushing my teeth there’s another practice that I do every morning as a part of my personal hygiene: dry body brushing.

 

Dry brushing is a great tool for detoxification (your lymphatic system is stimulated and dead skin is removed, making way for better oxygenation) and leaves you feeling totally energized. You can buy a body brush in any natural foods store and instructions will come with the brush.

4. Define Your Day.

I love this quote from Henry Wadsworth Longfellow: “Each morning sees some task begin, Each evening sees it close; Something attempted, something done, Has earned a night’s repose.”

Be like Longfellow (yes, I said “be like Longfellow”) and define your day by asking yourself, “If I could only get one task done today, what would be most satisfying?” Then make sure you carve out at least 15 minutes in the day to work on it. The earlier in your day you act the better, because you are more likely to get it done, and the satisfaction of having it done will give you a great feeling for the rest of the day.

5. Be here now.

Now that you’ve set your #1 priority for the day and planned the time to do it, let go of the sense that you must hurry and stress. Keep in mind this advice from Thich Nhat Hanh: “Life can be found only in the present moment. The past is gone, the future is not yet here, and if we do not go back to ourselves in the present moment, we cannot be in touch with life.”

Your point of power is always in the present moment – you can plan in the present moment, you can act in the present moment, but when you are anxious or worried your attention is no longer in the present.

Bring your attention back to the present moment with a simple yoga posture called mountain pose. This is actually a perfect centering practice any time you are stressed, especially when you find yourself waiting impatiently for anything (the water to boil) or anyone (your small child as he decides which underpants to wear).

Sit or stand tall. Feel the lift through the center of your body, from the base of your hips through the crown of your head. Close your eyes and let go of the sights and sounds around you. Deepen your breath and feel the flow of your inhalation and exhalation. Feel the quiet centering and balance that comes into your mind as you breathe. If you want an extra boost, raise your arms above your head and stretch your arms up to the sky.

6. Set the Tone.

Try answering these questions to help set a positive tone for the day.

 

Who: Who do I want to be?
How: How do I want to feel?
Why: Why am I visualizing my day as I am? If I am feeling anxious and stressed, can I re-imagine things in a more positive light?

 

7. Listen.

I’ve written before of the value of listening to your wise inner self. In order to hear it you must allow for some quiet on a daily basis. So first thing in the morning, be quiet and listen. If you are short on time, even one minute is enough. In that quiet space you are most likely to hear the messages from deep in your soul.

8. Exercise.

Yes, I recommend daily exercise. I know sufficient health benefits come from exercise only 3 times a week, but if you exercise every other day it’s so much easier to say, “You know, I just don’t feel like it today. I’ll do it tomorrow.” When you do something daily you get into the mode of saying, “This is what I do.”

After you’ve elevated your heart rate for at least 15 minutes your brain is drenched with feel-good endorphins. It doesn’t matter what you do – you could do jumping jacks in your kitchen – but significantly raising your heart rate for at least 15 minutes a day is what’s important. And of course morning exercise allows you to enjoy all these benefits throughout the day.

9. Wash Your Cares Away.

As you bathe, take deep cleansing breaths and imagine that the stress from your fears, worries, and problems is flowing away, out of your body, down the drain. When you release the tension that results from emotional stress, you will manage your concerns and challenges more effectively.

10. Eat (or Drink) Breakfast.

You probably know all the reasons why breakfast is the most important meal of the day, right? I always break my fast with freshly juiced beets, celery, kale, lemon, apple and lots of ginger. The fruits and vegetables have tons of vitamins and enzymes and many energizing and detoxifying benefits.

Then a little later I eat something high in fiber, like oatmeal or a banana. They fill me up and boost production of serotonin, a “happy” hormone that plays a key role in relieving stress.

Again, you do not need to adopt all of these practices, but if you incorporate even just a few of them into your daily routine, I bet you will feel more energized and happy in the morning and the positive effects will last for the rest of the day. And if you keep them up day after day, then guess what? You will have lived a happy life!

Stacey Curnow works as a certified nurse-midwife in North Carolina, and over more than 15 years her career has taken her from western Indian reservations to a center-city Bronx hospital to the mountains of southwestern Mexico.

She has been an enthusiastic student of positive psychology for years and applies it to her midwifery and life coaching practices with great success. You can find out more about her services at www.midwifeforyourlife.com.

She is the creator of a thriving blog and many of her articles have been published in print magazines and online.

She lives in Asheville, NC with her husband, young son, and Ruby the wonder chicken.

Relaxation Techniques for Panic Attacks

There are many relaxation techniques available to reduce the intensity and occurrence of Panic Attacks.  The following techniques are the most common:

• Meditation

• Visualization

• Deep breathing

• Sounds

Meditation can allow you to learn how to turn your focus of your thoughts from your Panic Attack symptoms to your breathing.  By concentrating on your breathing, you will be able to stop thinking about your Panic Attack, thus, giving you the chance to gain control of the situation and get yourself out of your Panic Attack.

Visualization is very similar to meditation.  Here you can use a recorded tape or your own imagination to describe a peaceful and pleasant place to be.  You will focus on this place and in your mind, be there.  This will then allow you to turn your focus from you Panic Attack symptoms to your peaceful place.  It will also lower your blood pressure, normalize your breathing, relax your muscles and make you feel relaxed.

Deep Breathing is one of the simplest things that you can do to relax yourself.  Here you will close your eyes and just concentrate on your breathing.  Breathing in slowly, holding it for a few seconds and then breathing out slowly.  After you have done this for a few minutes, you should feel relaxed and calm.

Sounds can be very relaxing.  You can turn on some soothing music, such as ocean waves, a fire crackling or classical lullaby.  Make yourself comfortable and just close your eyes and envision you are somewhere else.  For example, you are sitting on the beach in front of the ocean with the warm breeze softly blowing your hair and the sun slowly going down in the sky.  Think how peaceful this would make you feel.  Your thoughts will turn from your Panic Attack symptoms and just fade away.

All of these techniques are different, yet, they all have a similar goal of giving you skills to learn to relax yourself and face a Panic Attack without feeling overwhelmed or out of control.  Using these techniques along with other types of treatments can be a very effective combination for bringing relief and freedom from Panic Attacks that affect your life.

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Finding A Stress Management Technique That Works For You

There’s no greater tool to have in the arsenal of life than an appropriate and successful stress management technique. Having a variety of things to turn to in order to alleviate the negative impact of stress can change your life and bring you a health and happiness you may never have previously imagined.

Stress can affect every area of your life and send you on a journey of deteriorating mental and physical health. An effective stress management technique can be invaluable in striking an all-important balance in your life.

For some, an appropriate stress management technique means a dedicated and consistent exercise program. Giving your body a physical outlet is paramount to letting the air out of a tire. Your muscles are given a much needed chance to relax and tension is released. Exercise can positively impact heart rate and blood pressure as well, offering you increased health overall.

Try an exercise that establishes a strong mind/body connection – such as yoga – for a stress management technique. You’ll be surprised at how quickly exercise begins to positively affect you.

An additional stress management technique is the practice of meditation. Meditation – done consistently – can dramatically lower your blood pressure and heart rate – the most common physical manifestations of stress.

Find a stress management technique that’s unique to you by further exploring those activities and hobbies that bring you the greatest amount of relaxation. Take time for yourself each and every day to do something that brings you peace and has nothing to do with work or taking care of anyone else. These few small moments each day will do much to refresh your mind and body, giving you increased energy to face your next challenge.

To find other ideas for a stress management technique – such as acupuncture, chiropractic, and many others, turn to the Internet. There is an abundance of online resources available to help you combat stress and find the stress management technique that’s right for you.

There are even chat forums where you can find support within a larger community; you’re not the only one affected by stress. Look to others in a similar situation for ideas on finding a stress management technique.

Stress doesn’t have to run your life. Put yourself back in control by finding a stress management technique to which you can commit. Making yourself a priority is not selfish; it’s the most compassionate thing you can possibly do for yourself.

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